What philosophising? I never mentioned that. I'm simply citing my opinion (which seemingly to you is offensive) that neither party is "to blame".
Mentioned? You did your butt-hurt psilosophising non-stop throughout this thread (came up with quite a few baseless dictums in the process, too).
And you generously added ad personams for everyone who doesn't think your superficial opinion is truth, fact and the word of god (which I do find offensive).