There was a time when even I was a bit of a J/Cer. In fact, it's about the only time I ever gave two flapjacks about a relationship on any show.
I remember watching "Resolutions" for the first time and how excited I was. I actually thought that Star Trek was finally going to give some relationship payback. I should've known better. I was so sad.
The first time I saw "Resolutions" I just kept thinking "DO IT ALREADY!".
Then after that I really started to like J/C. "Resolutions" could have been done so much better. They missed a good opportunity there.