To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentation of their women.
Stole my damn line.
Success in life...I have no idea. Used to be not dying due to my own hand or my tormentors. Managed that. Now I've held down a job for several years in a row and is decently financially stable. Now I'm managing to make enough money to save up for trips I want to make. Next step I suppose is meeting someone. Or at least meeting people in general, get a sex life and so on.
I guess I'll let you know about five minutes before I die what I think success in life is.