Need for pecker is different from someone who always wants a hug.
You know the sort of person.
They're circling on your horizon with their arms spread out like they're pretending to be a big bird ready to snap shut like a bear trap around your kidneys.
I hate over-huggers.
They believe they're magically transferring platonic intimacy and spiritual health but you're only trying to ignore that they're letting you feel up their body with your body because the ends do not justify the means.
You can tie a butterfly in a knot, but you do have to strip their wings first.