I would say that rather than having "feelings" for her, what Bashir and Quark had for her was the hots. Not a lot of feeling there (at least not in the heart or mind
) is what I'm saying. If they did have feelings for her that were more substantive than lust, they didn't let these "deep" feelings get in way of making plays for plenty of other women, that's for sure.
.... but I say any guy who goes around making passes at a woman who has made it very clear she isn't interested in him deserves to find out over and over again that - guess what - she is not
interested in him. Actually, any female who does this (e.g. Chapel and Spock) deserves the same treatment as well.
I agree 90%! (100% sounds better, doesn't it?) I'd just add that regarding Quark, he did truly care about Jadzia - though maybe not romantically -, though he really did lust after her as well of course. Bashir, on the other, while lusting after her and coming on really strong, was also romantically interested.