^ That sounds like a really good program, Sector 7. However, from what I found online, it's specific to North Carolina.
Sounds like you've more than got your hands full. Prayers for you and for the bbs member you referred to.
I kind of giggled at your description of the decorating issues. That would be me. In fact, I would probably lose my mind if I had to combine households with someone at this point in my life.