I always find it so amusing for people to complain about the new look and the new ship and omg it isn't star trek.
The only pure Star Trek is The Cage
. Everything after that made changes to the concept/characters/universe. Early TNG is different from TOS, late TNG is different from early TNG, DS9 is different from TOS/TNG, Voyager is different from DS9 and Enterprise is different from what came before. Then you add the movies to the mix and "what is Star Trek?" is always a moving target.
Star Trek 2009
is average for me, there is better Trek and there is worse. But I don't doubt that it's Trek.