Deranged Nasat wrote:
If I'm allowed my second recommendation now, it'd be to never disregard the idea that useful and even life-changing advice can come from people you only know online, at a remove. In other words, this sort of thing isn't just to make us feel momentarily a bit brighter (thought that always helps), it can have real significance. On a related note, this is a good place (seeing as it's her thread) to thank Kestra
for some advice she gave me recently regarding useful reading material, which has arrived and is already helping me greatly.
Oh good, I'm glad you're finding it useful! A lot of people are reluctant to believe that a book could help them (and obviously you need to do other things), but it seemed relevant to your situation and concerns.