the 4th hanson bro wrote:
So many recommendations, so little time and I don't want to get smashed, so I'll keep it to one.
Everything in one's life falls into one of three buckets: that which we can control, that which we can influence, and that which we can neither control nor influence. Know what falls in what bucket and choose to spend your time, effort, and energy on buckets one and two.
Ever read a fellow named Epictetus?