Even if there are similarities between Star Wars and Star Trek XI does that mean people have expectations that I should not like Star Trek XI?
Sure, I can see some similarities but I liked Star Trek XI a whole lot.
In all honesty I said back in the 80s that Star Trek needed to adopt some aspects of Star Wars. I am glad that they actually did that. For instance, one complaint is that the Enterprise going to warp was more like Star Wars. I like this change, it adds a sense of realism that the other effect lacked.