Angry warriors do NOT make wine. Or, apparently, get laid
It's a good point though about the whiskey and sex outlet of the pre-holodeck era. Both those things involving real people interactions with potential for conflict and relationships, FALLOUT. No fallout on the holodeck, they had to malfunction for that to happen. Instead of the constant holodeck malfunctions they could have been having real malfunctions with each other and developed the characters and their relationships.
They should have had to suffer like the rest of us rather than making all their mistakes with photonics!!