No. You met Janeway on TV.
Mulgrew was just some women who lied and lied and lied.
Starsip this, and i married Columbo that.
It's almost pathological.
You can't trust women with such loose grips on reality.
If no expression, idea or word out of her mouth was true, then you had a superficial thing for Mulgrew based entirely on a hair cut Rick Berman forced her into or you have a deep and layered beautiful love for all things Janeway.