Re: Did Kirk captain any ship before Enterprise?
And we are talking about something entirely fictional here, after all. It's all completely abstract, not really important in any way, and not worth getting personal over. So maybe some deep breaths are in order at this point.
Pretty much what I would have said, had I got here early enough.
Live long and suffer! - Ancient Romulan greeting.
Romulans aren't paranoid. We're merely proactively cautious.