Grant,I've got to say that as I've followed this thread from the beginning and I've agreed with absolutely everything you've said.
The OP is either mistaken or lying.
Those scenes he claims to have seen do not exist.
Except they do exist. All of the scenes the OP mentioned (and more) are either on the internet or in the bonus features of the Collectors Edition DVD. Obviously these scenes weren't in the theatrical release. But maybe the OP saw an earlier version at a test screening or something. Generations probably had the most scenes that were almost in the film but weren't, out of all the Star Trek movies (usually a sign of a very troubled movie).
But they DONT exist in FINISHED FORM. The OP states he saw both a tape of Nemesis shot in a theater (recently!) AND Generations in the theater in FINISHED form as well.
We know those deleted scenes did not have finished FX.
Lying? Who knows. Doesn't matter.
Mistaken? For sure.