Wow. That sounds pretty weird. I mean sure Kirk, Spock, McCoy is a friendship of the ages but what does that have to do with people's need for romantic and sexual relationships? Now you can ship them that way with each other or give them women.. but either way these men will have needs that straight friendship cannot fulfill. It sounds like some people are elevating friendship to the level of the Victorian "romantic friendships" which seem a little odd to us today. All those intense feelings, and yet chaste.
Also.. fandom is supposed to be fun!
I like TOS Uhura better as well, probably because she is older. But I have high hopes for Zoe in the next movie
TOS Uhura is sassy at times and you can see Zoe has that too.