This is precisely what it comes across as being to this female.
The Dominion wrote:
... it also reeks of horny nerds having a big circle jerk together behind their computers.
It's discouraging that in 2012, that basically, for too many, a woman's worth is measured primarily by her looks.
If you don't believe me, turn on your television. In fact, here, we have a man who does features on our news that is not just heavy, but morbidly obese and there are plenty of heavy men on TV. Heavy women on TV aren't nearly as common.
In fact, if some alien would watch American TV, he or she would think that the typical American woman is thin and blonde, more often than not with big boobs that don't match the woman's shape/height.
And look at movies magazines or read threads like this to see what is expected from/of women. Be pretty and be sexually available. If not, face verbal abuse.