That's true. I suppose we could argue as well that Terri is acting out of some kind of sock. She is blaming Superman because he was first on the scene...people I guess in dire or extreme circumstances act irrationally. Both Henshaws seem to be doing that right now.
Quite true, though Terri should be lashing out at Lex
as well as Superman. If not for Lex, Hank wouldn't have been up there to get injured in the first place.