Came across this and thought I'd share: A German Mass Effect community site is doing a survey on people's opinions of ME3
and for an added bonus, it appears like Jessica Merizan (Bioware's community manager) it taking notice. I wouldn't construe that as Bioware saying that they'll base their future choices off of the results (though I'm sure some people will) but someone at Bioware (maybe just Merizan) will be watching how this turns out.
Either way it's worth filling out as it covers all the main points of centention and I for one am curious to see the results!
I REALLY don't blame Bioware for looking to other sources for rational fan reaction. The people on their official forums are utterly demented and have lost all sense of reality.