For what it's worth, a lot of the posters at any forum are super negative about every little thing they don't like.
Fixed that for you.
Can't wait for ME3 to arrive! I have 2 Shepards ready to go, one male and one female and I think I'll start with FemShep first since that's a more complete game than the other one. Missed a lot of the side-missions in ME2 with my first Shepard, so I'm probably going to go back and finish those up before loading it into 3.
Also have a 3rd Shepard in the works, but he's still stuck in ME1.