Re: If you don't think Nemesis is better than Star trek 2009....
Indeed, NEM seems to entertain the idea of free will whereas ST09 seems to entertain the idea of fate.
Thinking about it a little more I think both films promote the idea of fate. Shinzon may have come up under far different circumstances than Picard but he still rose to be a powerful leader of men. Only the morality of the two characters are different.
"...the most elementary and valuable statement in science, the beginning of wisdom, is I do not know." - Lt. Commander Data, "Where Silence Has Lease"