Re: If you don't think Nemesis is better than Star trek 2009....
Indeed, NEM seems to entertain the idea of free will whereas ST09 seems to entertain the idea of fate.
Thinking about it a little more I think both films promote the idea of fate. Shinzon may have come up under far different circumstances than Picard but he still rose to be a powerful leader of men. Only the morality of the two characters are different.
"If I hadn't tried, the cost would have been my soul." - Admiral James T. Kirk, Star Trek III: The Search for Spock