I'm not sure understanding that would help her to free herself from that spell.
This "spell" is something that she would have to come to understand on her own, it cannot be shown or explained to her. Her heart would have to understand what the mind already knows.
In a Cardassian library
or in a Cardassian gallery
"Reagan, it appears, is really only an ardent unionist if the unions in question are in Poland" - Stephen King, Skeleton Crew