Who decided that nudity is exclusively for the pleasure of men and not women? Are you actually suggesting that someone who contracts AIDS/HIV deserves it??
I think you're the one who is being disrespectful and sullying this free spirited bit of fun that some people have been known to have on a message board.
In case you've forgotten, this is a BBS, not a monastery. Lighten up.
I'll lighten up when humanity starts acting on a more mature level and less of an adolescent, juvenille nature.