I'm straighter than an arrow and married to what I consider a wonderful male fellow, but there's something about that woman that seems to attract us ladies from both sides of the fence. I think we just all wish we were that cool.
The forum would be boring without us, and you know it.
When my daughter became hooked on Voyager I was thrilled because I see Janeway as such a good role model for girls. I also agree with what others have said about her being strong, intelligent, elegant, and the like. Sexy is so much more than just being able to squeeze yourself into a catsuit.