Nah, it's all women.
Women are allowed to talk about who they are attracted to with complete impunity, meanwhile the instant men try to be as bold or honest, or even carefully and politically correctly honest: We're called misogynist gynophobic objectifying pigs.
Woman talk about how they want men and women talk about how they want women.
Nothing wrong with that.
Bloody awful double standard.
But it's also payback for the first 6000 years.