Jeto still has a long way to heal her soul, if she ever gets healed.
It wouldn't surprise me of the OO put young "recruits" in shared quarters with hopes that friendships would be forged and then those young men could be forced to do something to protect their friends. It wouldn't be beyond the Obsidian Order to use people's feelings against themselves
In a Cardassian library
or in a Cardassian gallery
"Reagan, it appears, is really only an ardent unionist if the unions in question are in Poland" - Stephen King, Skeleton Crew