Star Trek never ever done women properly. Where were the Carrie Bradshaw's in Star Trek? Major Kira? Captain Janeway???
Name one woman in Star Trek who was obsessed with shoes?
You might be able to make an argument for Lwaxana Troi because she was obsessed with men, but I think in season 4's Half A Life they really ruined her character by giving her so much depth and feeling.
Even the guest stars were ridiculous - K'Ehleyr and Shelby etc.