They claim TOS Spock went into the the Abramsverse.
No, he didn't.
In the non-existent world of fiction known as Star Trek, whatever the writers say happened... happened
. Whatever they write... happened
Which means TOS Spock appeared in the new movie.
Really. He did. Accept and move on.
What they want is irrelevant if what they put onscreen contradicts it.
Really. He didn't. Accept it and move on.