Abramsverse seems to run into the STO universe.
No, it doesn't. You must be thinking of the destruction of Romulus in 2387. That's something that happened in the Prime universe. When we say "Abramsverse" we're referring to the new timeline created when Nero travelled back to 2233, the timeline in which Vulcan was destroyed and Kirk became captain of a gigantic Enterprise
right out of the Academy. STO does not happen in that timeline.