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Old October 20 2009, 10:59 AM   #39
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Re: Admiral Brukk's Lonely Hearts Club

Mr. Laser Beam wrote: View Post
Brukk wrote: View Post
Would you say the Internet sex thing is a good way to go though?
If you want to spend the rest of your life soaking in a vat of penicillin, maybe...
Are you really, really the one to give advice about sex? Don't want to be mean to you dude, but suffice to say we have different views on things.
melancholymecha wrote: View Post
my problem isnt loneliness, I have alot of family around. I actually enjoy being alone but what makes it hard is that others dont seem to understand that. They expect a 35 years old woman to be or have been married or be going out with lots of friends & boyfriends. I have a hard time trying to explain that I am not like that & they just look at me funny. I could tell them I have Aspergers but they wouldnt understand what that is either.

I dont think I could handle a romantic relationship. I would need to know how to have a platonic relationship first, which Ive never been successful in having. I tend to be so self absorbed in my own things & hobbies that i would end up boring or trying to avoid the other person. Unless that person was exactly like me with my same interests but my interests are so odd that I dont think Id ever find a like minded indvidual, at least not around where I live. All everyone wants to do around here is outdoor activities or go clubbing.
I'm an Aspie as well, but I'm almost the opposite. Everyone in my family knows and understands what I am and seem to be content with that. It seems at times that my parents don't even expect me too meet someone again because of my condition. And that kinda pisses me off a bit, since I really do want to meet someone, I'm just clueless as to how I'll get to a point where I'm happy enough with myself that someone else might be as well.
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