Salvor, you speak as if you're not one...
The fans are by no means a united entity. There are all sorts of opinions and divided factions within it.
So yes, I am a fan of Star Trek (the franchise) by all means but there are many times where I don't feel like I am a part or want to be considered part of a certain section of fandom.
Or to be more precise, in this case I am not part of the Trek fans that have been calling for a reset button as far as the destruction of Vulcan is concerned.
For better or worse, they made a decision to destroy it, they should stick with it and its consequences.
I hope I made clear what I really meant.