Just to balance things out:
Phlox said he missed his wives husbands - that's kind of interspecies eerie.
Phlox did not enjoy being in quarantine with T'Pol during her premature pon far - that is hard to relate to as well.
Phlox wanted the captain to bang his wife - eek!
Neelix can chase monsters out of the replicator, he can dance, and he would be your partner in crime if needed.
Loved them both in different ways. Neither was obnoxious.