You're still not listening. I'm not saying the Queen is incapable of emotion. I'm saying that just because she professes a certain emotion, you can't assume she's telling the truth
about what her real motivation is. That goes for any person in any context, regardless of whether they're Borg, human, anything. If someone has an agenda, if he or she is trying to manipulate someone or achieve a goal, you can't just blindly assume that they're telling the truth when they express a certain feeling. People lie to manipulate other people. And I think the Borg Queen is a very skilled liar and manipulator.