By any rational standard,
STARFLEET IS A MILITARY ORGANIZATION.
I don't care if Gene Roddenberry denies it.
I don't care if Rick Berman denies it.
I don't care if 100 writers deny it.
1) A complete military command structure lifted whole cloth from the U.S. Navy.
2) Officers keep immensely powerful personal sidearms in their quarters.
3) Their ships carry weapons in the multi megaton destructive range.
If anyone can name a "science & exploration organization" anytime in human history that featured the three above, feel free to mention them.
I find it charming, how you feel you know how Star Trek works better than its creators.
Ask yourself - is T'Ryssa any less military than someone like Barclay? Wesley?