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Jayson September 30 2011 07:12 AM

I've lost intrest in sex.
 
I still see girls I find to be sexy but I don't seem to have the sexual desire I use to. Maybe it's because I am 35 years old or maybe because I am fat. I don't even masturbate daily like I use to. Anybody else feel like this?

Jason

Paradon September 30 2011 07:16 AM

Re: I've lost intrest in sex.
 
WHAAaa...?

Kestra September 30 2011 07:22 AM

Re: I've lost intrest in sex.
 
Sex is wonderful.

Asbo Zaprudder September 30 2011 07:30 AM

Re: I've lost intrest in sex.
 
Medication?

Deks September 30 2011 11:49 AM

Re: I've lost intrest in sex.
 
I lost interest in having sex with others... but that's because my attention is on my 'significant other to be'.
:D
Still, in your case, it's possible it's a combination of factors.
Being overweight can cause depression which in turn could translate into a lack of interest when it comes to multiple aspects... sex included.
Though it may also not be the case.

If you have masturbated on a frequent basis for example, you could have reached a point of 'saturation' (porn can do this as well).

Perhaps you could try shifting your attention to something else.
Maybe you could try losing some of that weight, exercise, etc... it might help restore your sex drive (a lot of individuals who don't exercise on a frequent basis suffer from lack of sexual drive - then again, it can also be a pure mental thing - psychosomatic response).

JoeZhang September 30 2011 11:54 AM

Re: I've lost intrest in sex.
 
Plus being overweight is connected to erectile dysfunction.

iguana_tonante September 30 2011 11:56 AM

Re: I've lost intrest in sex.
 
Quote:

Kestra wrote: (Post 5258270)
Sex is wonderful.

Only if you have it. :D

Asbo Zaprudder September 30 2011 12:12 PM

Re: I've lost intrest in sex.
 
Join a club - perhaps a fitness one. You're not over the hill. And stop thinking about sex all the time.

SmoothieX September 30 2011 01:33 PM

Re: I've lost intrest in sex.
 
Quote:

Kestra wrote: (Post 5258270)
Sex is wonderful.

Particularly if you are are at a hotel somewhere and don't have to worry if the sheets get a little goopy since someone else will simply replace them later in the day.

Paradon September 30 2011 01:35 PM

Re: I've lost intrest in sex.
 
Ok... See you later...groupy! :lol:

The Mirrorball Man September 30 2011 01:37 PM

Re: I've lost intrest in sex.
 
I'm still very interested in sex, but sex hasn't had any interest in me for quite a lot of years.

Squiggy September 30 2011 02:08 PM

Re: I've lost intrest in sex.
 
Quote:

Jayson wrote: (Post 5258259)
I still see girls I find to be sexy but I don't seem to have the sexual desire I use to. Maybe it's because I am 35 years old or maybe because I am fat. I don't even masturbate daily like I use to. Anybody else feel like this?

Jason

Being fat has been shown to slow down one's sex drive.

Also slowing down your sex drive...you're THIRTY FUCKING FIVE YEARS OLD.

This happens to every guy. Why do you think Viagra is a multi-billion dollar selling pharmaceutical? Then he just realized he could be arguing with a lamp post and the outcome would be the same. The lamp will never post in this thread again.

Jayson September 30 2011 04:02 PM

Re: I've lost intrest in sex.
 
Quote:

Squiggy wrote: (Post 5258581)
Quote:

Jayson wrote: (Post 5258259)
I still see girls I find to be sexy but I don't seem to have the sexual desire I use to. Maybe it's because I am 35 years old or maybe because I am fat. I don't even masturbate daily like I use to. Anybody else feel like this?

Jason

Being fat has been shown to slow down one's sex drive.

Also slowing down your sex drive...you're THIRTY FUCKING FIVE YEARS OLD.

This happens to every guy. Why do you think Viagra is a multi-billion dollar selling pharmaceutical? Then he just realized he could be arguing with a lamp post and the outcome would be the same. The lamp will never post in this thread again.

You made good points. I just thought the sex drive started to slow down in your 40's not your 30's. Thing is I don't miss it that much. I enjoy life right now more than I was a few years ago.

Jason

Squiggy September 30 2011 04:06 PM

Re: I've lost intrest in sex.
 
Quote:

Jayson wrote: (Post 5258848)
Thing is I don't miss it that much.

How much were you getting before?

SmoothieX September 30 2011 04:06 PM

Re: I've lost intrest in sex.
 
Good to see you are on the upswing.

As for sex, my Mom put it rather succinctly when I in high school and dating around: You may meet someone and have the greatest sex of your life every day, but what are the two of you going to do the other 23 hours and 45 minutes of the day?


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